Left Or Right? Up or Down?

My head keep thinking of 2 things

1) 26 July 2008 7.30pm BBQ Gathering at Hoi House

2) 26 July 2008 night My niece full month celebration

( Ya...i know i'm an uncle for now )

Which one should i go?

1 or 2

?

My mind can't decide...

It's such a mind twister...

I want to go to the Ex-classmate gathering...

Friends are starting flying to overseas for further study

Chances to meet them are lesser

I also want to see my (yet to be seen) niece...

Is there any better choice than just choosing one of them?

Friendship or Family?

Left or Right?

Up or Down?

Forward or Backward?